Flourishing in your spirit will require that you put God first in all things (above your children, above your husband, above your favorite hobbies, etc.). It will require that you spend quality time reading and studying His Word, praying and fellowshipping with Him, and growing spiritually each and every day.
The result of you seeking Him first and foremost will be that you will live a life that is blessed beyond measure. And not only will you be blessed, you will be a blessing to many others. Determine today to develop your spirit and to allow your spiritual life to flourish.